PERSPECTIVE & OPPORTUNITIES
Hundreds of years ago in Europe, a priest happened to be strolling past a stone quarry on a hot summer day. By the side of the road, there was placed a giant stone with two men setting it to shape using hammers and chisels. Now, this was an ordinary sight for a place such as this, however, something made the priest stop in his tracks and observe the two men shaping the stone. They were both performing the same task yet, the priest noticed that one of men seemed flustered and out of sorts while the other man looked exuberant and clearly enjoying his work.
"How goes the day, my son?" asked the priest to the flustered man.
"Do you not see this stone, Father? The sun is hot and the labor toilsome. This stone is hard and stubborn against my devices." responded the weary man.
"I see." replied the priest, nodding understandably. Then turning to the exuberant man, the priest queried, "And how is it that you appear so joyous while your partner here suffers performing the same task?"
"Well, you see, Father, I am building God's church!" answered the happy man with an elated countenance.
"I see." replied the priest with a smile. And after giving his blessing, he walked away pondering human nature its many variances.
Along the same lines, in his book Discipline Equals Freedom, retired Navy Seal Jocko Willink talks about his response to setbacks, failures, and other stressful circumstances.
He says: "Good!"
He goes on to make the case that these are opportunities to become better; a time to find a solution to a problem.
The obvious lesson here to be learned is having the right perspective. While the flustered man viewed his work as difficult coupled with unpleasant conditions, the happy man viewed his work as helping towards a loftier purpose. He had a reason that made the work meaningful and worthwhile and this reason was something greater than himself. And in Jocko's case, he simply realizes that any obstacle placed in your path is really just an opportunity to grow as a person. Having the right perspective and reframing obstacles as opportunities can go a long way in managing our stress. Time it takes: Instant